The US and Cuba have a long history of tension-filled relations, so I wasn’t sure what to expect when going to a country not many Americans have been to. Especially not being a fluent Spanish-speaker, I didn’t know how I would communicate with locals, but I was determined to get to know people around our casas.
In Trinidad, our casa was situated across the street from the home of Luz Mary (pictured above), one of the oldest neighborhood girls and clearly the leader of the group. She could speak some English from lessons as school and loved to show us her photo albums and tell us about her family. Many of the other neighborhood kids were her cousins or siblings, and she acted as a mother figure for them while they played outside, scolding them when they were mean to each other or telling them to go back inside when it became late.
We were lucky enough to be invited to her younger cousin Luis’s 8th birthday party one night. The kids were planning on staying up until midnight so they could ring in Luis’s birthday with soda, pizza, and singing to him. Luz Mary provided us with glasses and soda after we ventured out to buy pizza from street vendors, and we clinked our glasses to celebrate Luis. He was a naturally shy kid but he wouldn’t stop smiling at the attention. Luz Mary conducted us in singing to him, and threw homemade confetti as the crescendo to the song.
The day we left Trinidad, Luz Mary gifted us with beaded necklaces and waited for our taxi with us. We were sad to say goodbye to her after seeing her every day for two weeks and playing soccer with her and her cousins. We made sure to take plenty of pictures with her!
The other picture I included above is in Santa Clara. While waiting for our taxi, an older man stopped by to chat with us. Overall, Cubans were very friendly to us and just wanted to talk or hear about the US. Many Cubans have family in the United States, mostly around the Florida area. He asked to take pictures with us (after asking if I had a boyfriend) and grinned when we showed them to him.
One of my favorite parts of our trip was getting to know the locals and learning about their stories. We made some great friends, which made it even harder to leave, but it just gives us another reason to go back.